I'm really posting this to see if I have justification for lying, or if there is a better way to handle situations like this without "lying". Noah and I were coming out of PetSmart yesterday (more fish supplies), when this man (roughly 30) approached us holding a gas can. "Excuse me, Miss, do you have a few dollars I can have to buy gas for my car? It is the White Dodge Stratus parked over there." He pointed across the parking lot, but I saw no Dodge Stratus, let alone any white cars (but I could have missed it.) I said, "Sorry, I don't have any more cash." Obviously a lie since I was on my way to Aldi. He said, "Okay, thanks" and walked back up to the door of the pet store.
As I was on my way to Aldi, less than one mile away, I passed two gas stations. I thought, "Why would someone stand outside of a pet store asking for money, rather than walk the not-even-half-mile to the gas station and ask people there?" I feel bad for lying, but I find people's logic in stuff like that a little odd. The weird thing was, this happened to me around the same time of day about two weeks prior in the Aldi/Bread Store parking lot.
Noah and I were leaving the bread store when a man and "his daughter" approached us asking for money. They said they hadn't eaten in two days. Hmmmm... appearance wise they certainly did not appear to have missed any meals. Not to be mean, but they were both
quite hefty. I told them they should go into the bread store and see if they had any leftover bread. (The bread store I shop at is an Entenmann/Arnold/Thomas outlet. The bread is $1.00/loaf, and I am sure they toss or take what doesn't sell to a food pantry.) Anyway, they ignored me, and just kept walking up to people asking for money.
So, that is my story for the day. Was it okay to lie to that guy with the gas can? Is there a better way to handle it? I didn't want to do anything to jeopardize my or our kids' safety. I didn't feel "threatened", but you just never know... I guess should start carrying my Taser more often.