Something to Ponder

A friend sent me this article today by Cal Thomas which I think is right on. Some of you may not agree, but it is worth thinking about...  

Uh, Okay

Mike went in Noah's room the other day to get him up from his nap. Well, this is what he walked in on



I guess Noah knows how to take his diaper off. Luckily, he didn't leave any presents in the crib. He also loves wearing underpants-- OVER his diaper. He is not getting the concept. Actually, I think he does, he is just toying with me.

Ever Have One of Those Days??

The Bachelor- A Total Pig

How many times do you hear tabloid rumors about celebrities, who then deny, deny, deny, and 3 months later it turns out to be true?  Answer... pretty much all the time.  

Well, no different with The Bachelor.  I got the inside scoop from my little spy in Dallas (where Melissa is from), and she said Melissa is proposed to on the finale.  But, Jason continues conversing with Molly on the side.  During the first (yes, there are two scheduled) After The Rose special, he takes the ring back from Melissa letting her know that he still loves Molly.  Pretty much completely blind-siding Melissa.  What a Pig!  This explains the whole "intimate", "dramatic" part.  Then, on the second After The Rose, he proposes to Molly.  Again, Pig. Pig. Pig.  The worst part of this "rumor" is that apparently ABC is in on the whole thing.  Jason had decided early on that Molly was the one for him, and ABC had him string Melissa along in the hopes of her becoming the next Bachelorette. 

If this "rumor" turns out to be true, ABC can pretty much drop this show from their lineup because no one will ever watch it again.  I know I shouldn't watch it, and I definitely won't anymore.  Most of the people that read this don't watch it anyway (except my husband- who I admit is forced to watch it or play Mafia Wars for 2 hours on facebook.)  

 

Oscars... The Good, The Bad, and The Dreadful

I must admit I watched bits and pieces of this nightmare just so I could catch Heath Ledger's parents accepting his (now Matilda's) Oscar. I can't comment on any of the winning performances because I didn't see any of these movies (with the exception of The Dark Knight), nor do I care to. I won't comment on Sean Penn's stupidity either. But, I will give you my opinion on the best and worst dressed. Without further delay, the best dressed goes to...

Penelope Cruz looked stunning (another Tom Cruise ex wins an Oscar, maybe Katie Holmes will get a clue... lose the Cruise = win an Oscar)

Robert Downey, Jr. and his wife looked great!  I hope his rehab days are behind him because he is a fabulous actor.

Who is Amy Adams and where did she come from?  Dress, awful. 50 pound necklace does nothing for the dress.  She's a mess, but I don't think the worst.

I have Sophia Loren as worst dressed because she hasn't learned how to "grow old gracefully".  Her plastic surgery face didn't budge a millimeter when she was presenting.  For a 74 year old woman, her body is great (thanks to Spanx, I'm sure), but when are these people going to learn that too much nip/tuck is too much nip/tuck.  Did she go to Priscilla Presley's surgeon??

And the Oscar Goes to...

Unfortunately, no movie like this would ever win Best Picture. If you saw the movie Fireproof, you may have seen previews for the movie Come What May. It releases on DVD March 17th. Here is a brief synopsis...

The movie focuses on college students Caleb and Rachel who are working together to win the Moot Court national championship. For that to happen, however, Caleb first has to come to grips with what he believes ... and what he believes will win. Wherever he lands will have consequences. If he takes the pro-life argument, he stands to lose the most important competition of his life—and the support of his mother. If he follows his mother's lead, he could win the coveted title ... but lose the heart of Rachel in the process.

This powerful drama is a vivid reminder that choosing what's right is never easy ... but it's always worth the cost.

Freebie Friday

Did you know today, and today only, you can get free prints from Walgreens.com? I found a new blog that saves me so much time searching for coupons and free stuff. It's Money Saving Mom. You can find the Walgreens free print info on the blog. If you are always looking for ways to save money, then definitely check it out. There is a link to the blog at the right. Maybe every Friday I will post blogs/sites I find that save money, offer good info., or that I just enjoy. Let me know if you took advantage of any of the savings... Happy Friday!! I guess I could post a picture so this entry seems more lively.

Dreaming of Warmer Weather

I am really getting tired of the cold weather. Not that I don't like cold weather, but if it is going to be this cold for this long, there really should be snow on the ground. So, today I am dreaming of warmer places...

St. Lucia

St. Maarten

San Juan, Puerto Rico

Okay, I shouldn't have done that-- now I want to go on a cruise again!!!

Missing USB cable

I can't post any pics of the kids right now because I learned at my last camera class that you should not interchange USB cables.  Apparently, this messes with the format and can screw up your camera.  I have the cable for the old digital, but the new digital cable is MIA.  Hmm... I will look for it and hopefully have some pics of them up at some point soon.  

Idol Talk

(Photo: Getty Images)   I was able to watch American Idol last night in roughly 25 minutes, thanks to DVR, I didn't have to sit through the stupid commercials and the boring, pointless interviews.  But, I did have to sit through some painful performances that had me wondering how these people got this far.  I am not a music producer and could have told them "wrong song choice."  The chick that sang "Little Less Conversation" by Elvis wearing that 80's spandex get-up had me squirming in my chair--make her stop!!!  And, please put Tatiana on the first plane back to Puerto Rico.  At least the rule change this year allowing only the top 3 vote getters to advance makes this season somewhat bearable.  We won't be subjected to less than mediocre performances week after week after week.   At least I hope not.

The one bright spot, Danny Gokey, of course!   Everyone loves Danny.  How can you not?  His wife passed away not even a year ago.  He's a church music director.  Sings with a lot of emotion.   I think he will get pretty far in the competition.   Go Danny!!! 

Another Something to be Proud Of

Yes, St. Louis once again lands in the top 10 of another list cities don't want to be included in. What list you ask? Why the 10 Most Miserable Cities to Live In according to Forbes Magazine. Yippee!! The Gateway City ranked #10 scoring in the bottom half of all nine categories looked at for the Forbes Misery Measure. It was the only metro area to pull off that feat. Now THAT is something to blog about :-)

Photo courtesy of Forbes.com

Great Read

I really enjoyed reading Still Growing by Kirk Cameron. If you grew up loving Kirk, the teen idol, you will like it as well. He gives a lot of insight into what it was like to be a teen idol, how he met and fell in love with his wife, and how God continues to provide for him and his family even though he has been black balled by Hollywood for being a Christian. I finished the book in one weekend, I just haven't updated. Great book, and I recommend you check it out.

The Bachelor- Oh the Drama

Can they think of any other catch phrase besides "it's the most dramatic..."? Now it's the "potentially" most dramatic After The Rose ever. Gee, what does that mean? Well, it can only mean one thing. He proposes to Melissa and meets her parents for the first time at the After The Rose show. Now that I have spoiled the finale, here's what I think of the Deanna thing. She will tell him to make sure he knows what he is doing, and that she made a mistake sending Graham home so soon. We all know that is who she liked all along.

I'm sad to see Jillian go, but I think she is a strong woman and will get over it. I think J. let her go because it would be easier to say goodbye to Country Club Barbie (Molly) so he can propose to Melissa. Speaking of Melissa, did you notice how confident she was at the Rose Ceremony? I'm suspecting he told her on their date that she was "the one" because in all other Rose Ceremonies she has been a big bundle of nerves. Did you also notice the french manicure and her right pinky ring (they only showed it 50 times)? Remember I said the season preview shows the girl who gets proposed to having a french manicure and wearing a right pinky ring. Country Club Barbie has red fingernails. If I'm wrong, I'll admit it, but I will blame ABC for tricky editing.

One last thing... how many times do we have to see Trista and Ryan? We know they are happy. ABC could at least get new footage of them rather than showing the same stuff from 2 seasons ago.

Staying Busy

Hey All! I have had and continue to have a lot going on. Just a bunch of little things that have to get done so I don't have much time to write. So today I am cheating and will let you read my daily devotion that I get from Proverbs 31 Ministries. It is by Tracie Miles...

"Your attitude should be the same as that of Christ Jesus." Philippians 2:5 (NIV)

Is the glass half full or half empty? Is it partly sunny or partly cloudy? Perspective makes all the difference.

Even for strong Christians who are grounded in their faith, discouragement can easily sneak its way into hearts and minds as life deals us chaos. As we struggle with the challenges and difficulties of everyday life, or things that happened to us that were unfair or unwarranted, it is easy to get pulled into a habitual mindset of negativity. Just like that old song from the 80s says, we may find ourselves asking God, "What have you done for me lately?"

Our answer to that question will depend entirely upon our perspective. God does more for us each and every day than we deserve, but it 's so easy to lose sight of the good, because we are caught up in the reality of the bad. How do we combat this perfectly human attitude?

Prayer.

Resolve to have an attitude like Christ.

Take inventory of our every blessing.

Life. Your every breath. Your every heart beat. A spouse or loved one. Children. Clothes that need to be washed because God gave you clothes to wear, and a way to wash those clothes. Good health to help those whose health is failing. Trusted and educated doctors to treat you when you are facing health challenges. A house that needs cleaning. A car to drive. The ability to purchase gas for the car. A job to go to. The ability to be a stay at home mom or wife. Healthy kids who can play music or sports. Friends. Family. Freedom. Jesus. Eternal life.

What is on your inventory list today? If you were honest with yourself, would you say you have been looking for the positive aspects of the situations in your life? Are you considerin g how God could be using those things to draw you closer to Him? Or have you been primarily focused on the negative?

During times of negativity, we actually become our own enemy. We wage a battle in our mind because we look at our situation from our own perspective, instead of what God may be doing through our situation. So in order to change our minds, we have to choose to change the way we think – our perspective. Attitude is a choice.

Winston Churchill once said, "A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty." What do you usually see?

To quote an old cliche, today is the first day of the rest of your life, and it is never too late to become an optimist! I have heard it takes 21 days of doing something for it to become a new habit. The more you practice challenging your thought patterns, the more automatic it will become. Changes may not take place immediately, but over time, the challe nge gets easier, and optimism becomes the norm instead of the exception.

Are you willing to take the challenge to become an optimist today? The rewards of looking for God's goodness in every situation will be a healthier and happier heart.

Dear Lord, help me with my human tendency to be critical or look for the negative in situations. Forgive me for a lack of gratitude for all You have given me. Thank You for Your patience with me as I strive to be a Godly example. Guide my heart to recognize You at work, instead of seeing things from an earthly perspective. Lead me into a closer relationship with You by helping me remember to count my blessings every day. In Jesus' Name, Amen.

The Bachelor- Is It Over Yet?

I am looking forward to the end of this season. It is just becoming pretty boring. The same thing, over and over. I zapped through the majority of it. One thing that is clear is that the girls seem to genuinely like each other. That is a first. You could tell they were very sad that Stephanie was leaving. She is such a mom, and I think gave a lot of off-camera advice to the girls from someone who has "been there, done that, wrote the book, saw the movie". The girls not picked in the end will be heartbroken, but will all be happy for the chosen one (Melissa.) It has to be her because the girl chosen wears a pinky ring on her right hand, and unless they have done some fancy, schmancy editing, Melissa is the only one who does.

I find it interesting from the upcoming previews that Jason won't get to meet Melissa's parents because they don't agree with the premise of the show. Good for them. I would think most parents would have a problem with the show (at least I would hope so.) Most of the girls just come across as so desperate and insecure. I actually feel sorry for most of them. You can always pick out the "15 minutes of fame" girls though. Deanna was one of them. Speaking of... when is she coming into the picture or was all of that just more editing tricks??

A Word About Freefile

On a previous post I mentioned using the Freefile tax filing system available through the IRS website. I did say it was quick and easy. It is. However, if you have a Mac computer, the system is not compatible for the printing and sending of the forms. Luckily, Mike has Windows at work so we were able to get the forms printed. As for the Missouri forms, the fillable/calculating forms are not Mac compatible either. A little frustrating, but I am filling them out long hand and Mike will enter the data and print and send at work.

Some of My Other Names

I copied this from another blog I follow and thought I would try it out. Would love to hear what some of your other names are.


1.YOUR REAL NAME:
Rachel D

2.WITNESS PROTECTION NAME:(mother and fathers middle names)
Ann Fredrick

3.NASCAR NAME:(first name of your mother's dad, father's dad)
Emory Charles

4.STAR WARS NAME: (the first 3 letters of your last name, first 2 letters of your first name)
Dobra

5.DETECTIVE NAME:(favorite color, favorite animal)
Red Bear

6.SOAP OPERA NAME:(middle name, town where you were born)
Renee Evansville

7.SUPERHERO NAME: (2nd fav color, fav drink, add "THE" to the beginning)
The Blue Diet Soda

8.FLY NAME:(first letter of 1st name, last 2-3 letters of your last name)
Rins

9.STREET NAME:(fav ice cream flavor, fav cookie)
Chocolate Chocolate Chip (yum)

10.ROCK STAR NAME:(current pets name, current street name)
None Butterfield Court (still unsigned)

11. PEN NAME: (1st pet, street you grew up on)
Tiki Mo Fin Tarrytown (look for my next best seller)

12.YOUR GANGSTA NAME:(first 3 letters of real name plus izzle)
Racizzle

13.YOUR IRAQI.. NAME:(2nd letter of your first name, 3rd letter of your last name, first two letters of your middle name, last two letters of your first name then last three letters of your last name)
Abreelins

14.YOUR GOTH NAME:(black, and the name of one of your pets)
Black Buffy ( I don't have pets, but our neighbor had one when I was little)

15.DANCER NAME (favorite perfume/cologne plus favorite candy)
Romance M&M

Have fun!

Snow Day

It's day two of being homebound.  No school.  Too cold to go outside.  We did attempt to go outside, but it takes longer to get all the snow gear on than the amount of time we can stay outside.  Really not worth the effort.  We got about  6 inches overnight so hopefully by this afternoon the temperature will at least be bearable to make a snow angel or two.    Burrrrrrrr... and I can't make hot chocolate because suddenly our microwave has decided not to function anymore. But, it is 15 years old so I guess that says something.

To Do: Complete the 1040-- Check

I just finished our federal 1040 form.  Once I receive an official statement from our credit union, I can send it in.  Since the majority of the numbers can be retrieved online now, it is a pain to have to wait for the paper record trail, but good to have.  I highly recommend the free file through the IRS.  Very simple.  Very quick.  Now, on to the state forms.  

The Bachelor Week 4 Almost Famous

Once again, Jason has proven to be a stand up guy.  Why put off the inevitable and give some of these women false hope?  I was laughing at the Rose Ceremony.  Poor "You're going to give me a rose, or else..." Lauren didn't get a rose.  She obviously thought this was all a game.  I mean, how dare Jason change the rules and not give out three roses?  He didn't want someone dominating him and telling him what to do.  Imagine how she would treat little Ty.  And, did you catch her song during the credits "I Want to be Famous."  Maybe she should have tried out for Idol instead, but she wouldn't have made it to Hollywood.  How dare you not give me a Rose!  I am going to be Famous!!

Speaking of Ty, good thing Psycho Shannon won't be meeting him.  What a roller coaster of emotions she is.  One minute she's laughing, then all of a sudden crying, then puking, then laughing... get this girl some Prozac.  I knew she was going home when she tried kissing him, and he pulled away.  Final nail in her coffin.  So glad he said adios to her, and what was with her dress at Rose Ceremony?

Cue the Psycho music

I'm not going to talk about Megan.  As for the final five... Stephanie.  When is Jason going to realize there is no romantic chemistry there?  Watching their dancing was painful.  She does have at least one more one-on-one date left with Jason (I will explain this in a minute), so she will be around at least another week, but I don't think she gets the final rose.   Melissa is quickly becoming the sentimental favorite.  She really, really likes him.  If she's not the one left holding the final rose at the end, look for ABC to tout her as the next Bachelorette.  Jillian is still a favorite as well, but she did not get much airtime this week.  Could the General Hospital proposal be foreshadowing something to come?  Molly, well, I just don't like her.  Finally, there is Naomi.  The race is on, and she is definitely coming on strong down the final stretch.  Oh, and I guess we still have to include Deanna since none of those scenes have aired yet.  

I have saved all of these episodes on DVR so last night after the show I went back and watched the season previews from the first episode.  Mike said I was obsessed, but he was watching the preview with me and helping me pick out the little details.  Four eyes are better than two.  There is still a scene/date to come as Stephanie and Jason are driving some kind of boat together.  Jillian should make the final three because there is a scene with her (in a bikini) and Jason on the beach... these getaway dates usually aren't until the final three.

Here's the good stuff.  According to the season preview, the girl that gets the proposal is clearly shorter with dark hair.  They show him holding/spinning a girl around on the side of a mountain after he has proposed.  That rules out Stephanie and Molly.  It only shows her shoulder/arm and hand.  Her shoulder is tan and thicker/muscular.  Again, couldn't be Stephanie because she is a stick and so is Molly.  The "proposed to" woman also has a french manicure and a freckle or mole on the left hand side of her forearm.  (This sounds obsessive, but you are still reading :-)  Melissa has stubby fingernails, but I guess she could get a manicure.  So, when you are watching over the next few weeks, keep an eye out for a mole/freckle on the left forearm, and that's the girl!  From the women remaining, I think it looks like either Naomi, Jillian, or Melissa.  I am going out on a limb and predicting it is Melissa, but I secretly want it to be Jillian.  

Did they show this scene last night?