Noah's Growing

Well, at 10 months old Noah continues to grow long and lean. He weighed in at 20 lbs. 12 oz., and he is 29 inches long. Only the 50th percentile for his weight and 70th for height. The doctor is predicting a tall, skinny kid. Hmmm... I guess we'll have to wait a few more years to find out. He's cute regardless. I will try to post some pictures later as it is library day and I want to get home before rush hour hits.

Can I get an "Amen"

This is a question and answer article from some unknown source (I found it through another friends blog- thanks Ashley). But I love the response made to the lame-o question asked by the childless, clueless, abandoned friend.

Carolyn:
Best friend has a child.
Her: exhausted, busy, no time for self, no time for me, etc.
Me (no kids): Wow. Sorry. What'd you do today?
Her: Park, play group . . .
Okay. I've done Internet searches, I've talked to parents. I don't get it. What do stay-at-home moms do all day? Please no lists of library, grocery store, dry cleaners... I do all those things, too, and I don't do them EVERY DAY.
I guess what I'm asking is: What is a typical day and why don't moms have time for a call or e-mail? I work and am away from home nine hours a day (plus a few late work events) and I manage to get it all done. I'm feeling like the kid is an excuse to relax and enjoy -- not a bad thing at all -- but if so, why won't my friend tell me the truth? Is this a peeing contest ("My life is so much harder than yours")? What's the deal? I've got friends with and without kids and all us child-free folks get the same story and have the same questions.

Tacoma, Wash.



Dear Tacoma, Wash.,

Relax and enjoy. You're funny.Or you're lying about having friends with kids.Or you're taking them at their word that they actually have kids, because you haven't personally been in the same room with them.

Internet searches? I keep wavering between giving you a straight answer and giving my forehead some keyboard.

To claim you want to understand, while in the same breath implying that the only logical conclusions are that your mom-friends are either lying or competing with you, is disingenuous indeed.

So, since it's validation you seem to want, the real answer is what you get. In list form.

When you have young kids, your typical day is: constant attention, from getting them out of bed, fed, clean, dressed; to keeping them out of harm's way; to answering their coos, cries, questions; to having two arms and carrying one kid, one set of car keys, and supplies for even the quickest trips, including the latest-to-be-declared-essential piece of molded plastic gear; to keeping them from unshelving books at the library; to enforcing rest times; to staying one step ahead of them lest they get too hungry, tired or bored, any one of which produces the kind of checkout-line screaming that gets the checkout line shaking its head.

It's needing 45 minutes to do what takes others 15.

It's constant vigilance, constant touch, constant use of your voice, constant relegation of your needs to the second tier.

It's constant scrutiny and second-guessing from family and friends, well-meaning and otherwise.

It's resisting constant temptation to seek short-term relief at everyone's long-term expense.

It's doing all this while concurrently teaching virtually everything -- language, manners, safety, resourcefulness, discipline, curiosity, creativity. Empathy. Everything.

It's also a choice, yes. And a joy. But if you spent all day, every day, with this brand of joy, and then, when you got your first 10 minutes to yourself, wanted to be alone with your thoughts instead of calling a good friend, a good friend wouldn't judge you, complain about you to mutual friends, or marvel how much more productively she uses her time. Either make a sincere effort to understand or keep your snit to yourself.

Can I get an 'Amen' from all the mommies out in blog-land?!

I'm 10 months old today

Hi. I'm Noah. I'm 10 months old today. I have my check-up on Monday so who knows how big I am. The outfit I am wearing in these pictures is a 3-6 month size. The pants are way too short so mom rolled them up. The sweater is too small and has a stain on it. Oh well, I still look quite handsome. In case you were wondering, I still don't crawl because I get around quite well in the sitting position as I dig my heels in and scoot on my bottom. I think I will be a professional baseball player when I grow up. I am always grabbing myself during diaper changes. I just laugh and laugh. Mom and Dad don't find it amusing (well, Dad does). I also like spitting food out while I eat. It really makes my sister laugh. That's about all you need to know I guess. I hope you like my pictures.

Little Bear Goes to School

Today was Carlie's first day of preschool. We were so excited for her, and she was very excited herself. When we dropped her off she was happy to see there were lots of Ponies and babies to play with. Noah really missed his sister. I went to the grocery store after dropping her off, and he cried and cried the whole time. He never does that. Even when we got home he was still crying. I had to give him Cheerios, and he finally stopped crying. Once we picked her up, he was fine. Definite love for the big sis. I know Carlie played hard because this is the first nap she has taken in quite a while.

Looking supersweet

Ready to roll

Walking into school as Principal Ketchum welcomed all the kids.

Carlie's teacher, Mrs. Garthe

Cubbie Corner

The Week that was

We didn't do a ton last week due to the intense heat and humidity, but I did manage to drag the kids out to an open practice during Rams training camp. Unfortunately, it was so hot, we only stayed about 30 minutes so we didn't get autographs or anything. You can tell in the photos how hot and miserable the kids are. I don't know how the players do it wearing all that padding. At least we live 5 minutes away so it wasn't a big deal to leave after a short time. Maybe next year it won't be quite so hot, and we can meet a few players. We did get to see a Rams cheerleader up close. She was selling calendars. Most of the cheerleaders look like they want to be the next stars of "The Girls Next Door".

Getting Ready for School

Well Carlie starts preschool in 10 days. So I took a few pictures of her when her new school backpack arrived in the mail. Yes, the backpack is as big as she is, but I really don't want to have to keep buying them every year. I am hoping this will get her thru 8th grade. We'll see. Don't worry, there will be plenty more pictures of her on her first day.

Water Babies

It has been so hot outside that we have spent several mornings in the pool. I wish I could fit in it. Noah absolutely loves it and splashes and splashes. Carlie of course thinks he is splashing her on purpose and gets a little annoyed, but she goes with the flow and loves playing with her little brother.

A Visit with Kristi

I was so fortunate to get to visit with our friend, Kristi, during her move to Dayton, OH. She will be starting her residency there, and her hubby was able to find an optometry job so all is going well for them. Carlie loves visiting with her old friend. Kristi and her hubby used to watch Carlie for us when they lived in St. Louis before they moved to K.C. But I won't give their life story. I was just glad to get to visit with her even if it was for just a few hours.

More Movie Reviews and Recs

We've seen some good movies lately so I thought I would share. You may have already seen them, but here is my take. The Departed and Blood Diamond are awesome movies. They are extremely violent, so not for the kid folk. Blood Diamond just really makes you appreciate living in this country. I can't imagine having to live in an environment like that. And, the worst movie ever made (no, Dad it is not Wayne's World) is Anchorman. Oh, that was just dreadful. We also saw Spiderman 3 on the Omnimax. It was a very dizzying experience on that type of screen. The kid next to me got sick. It was a good flick, a bit long, but good. I am sure there will be another one, but can they please get a new M.J.? Kirsten Dunst is really annoying! ALERT... Katie Holmes will not be in the next Batman movie, her character has been recast with Maggie Guylenhall.

Best movie we have seen lately... drum roll please... Pursuit of Happyness! What a great movie, I laughed, I cried, very inspiring. Will Smith is such a great actor and seems to be a great family man, and I wish he would get a little more recognition than the people shooting roids to break records and shooting dogs in the head. Eeeekkk, but I won't get started on that. If we see anything else worth seeing, I shall let you know.